Secret To Make Your Ex Return Your Call

09 Aug

Posted by laling as 3GP

aling wanna to ask you guys how to make your ex return your call after you make a trouble mistake a moment ago and desperately want to fix on your relationship..We have some ego rite? and does not want to look stupid and desperado..So how to make a one SMS change these situation where you look smart and not in wrong side? Are there ‘magic’ words you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls?

Sounds hard to believe but there are words that will nearly cast a spell and make your ex feel almost compelled to return your call. Cool huh?…I am going to share this with you because this is one of the biggest questions I get from Mr.Ego Tahap Dewa just like you that are trying to put your relationship back together. So I am going to answer…”How do I get my ex to return my phone call, text, SMS or IM?”
call me babe
Alright then before we go futher this is a WARNING! If you use this technique alone, without an overall plan or strategy…you may damage your relationship more than if they never returned your call. You need some kind of consultant and good advise following step by step strategy to counter this problem in case your relationship is beyond too bad to repair.

However this is what NOT to say and almost NEVER works..Hey puts you in an AWFUL psychological position. Let say put me I’m a Mr.Ego GF..jajaja..OK these usually fall into 2 categories.The PLEAD- Where the message sounds like

“Abang, please, please call me. This is the 3rd
time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you.”

And the EMERGENCY-

“Honey, this is an emergency. Please call me
as soon as you get this.”

Now, I think you can see what is wrong with both of those approaches? So, I won’t go on and on…In a smart way I teach you How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest to Your Advantage.Two of the most powerful forces in the human mind are Curiosity & Self Interest and here’s the BIG SECRET! When you combine the two, you have a recipe that WILL work ‘magic’ So…Let’s look at what I suppose to say that works nearly EVERY TIME. In a friendly tone:

“Hi Abang Ego kita. It’s Laling. I wanted to let
you know I appreciate what you did for
me. Call me because I want to thank you
in person.”

Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity and self interest?

Abang Ego kita mesti takleh tahan hehehii..He will NOT be able to resist! “Far from his bottom heart whispering What did I do?” “What does thing I appreciate?” He will be thinking. And for sure He feels good because it is a positive message.

Now…It’s not over yet before Mr.Ego call me, I need to do the “Set Up”…which is figuring out what I did that He appreciate. It can be any small thing…but needs to be plausible. But more importantly…with no underlying strategy and He call you back you can do more DAMAGE than good if you do not handle it correctly.

OK? My conclusion is…What you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is MORE important than getting them to return your call.

Make sense? Fikir-fikirkanlah.. Think about this..Anyway you have a NEXT PLAN?